Summer 2012 – At the Softball game

Summer and softball goes together.

Al Slade and daughter Angel Slade

Al Slade and daughter Angel Slade at Co-ed softball game

We have committed to go to our son-in-law games. Our friends from Arizona don’t miss any of them. We have to keep up with the Doolittles, so we go to the games. Also, we enjoy them. We give our son-in-law a hard time. He seems to take it well. I hope he hangs in there with us. We love him.

I wasn’t in the photo shoot. I guess I was home doing social media.

 

Al Wylie, Son in law

Al Wylie is the pitcher for a co-ed team, "Radio Shack". He's a good pitcher. We give him a hard time and hackle him at times. It's all in the family.

Al Wylie, pitcher's mound

Our son-in-law, Al Wylie, at pitcher's mound

Gloria Doolittle

Gloria Doolittle from Tempe, Arizona. Our daughter is on the left on the bleachers

Summer Fun

We have been going to our son-in-law games all summer. This week was the last, next week is for the championship. Radio Shack Co-Ed team has done well. We are proud of this team.

Taking time to go to games is necessary. The kids move faster than we do. We have to take time during their activities. All necessary to keep family together.

 

Al Wylie pitching for the Radio Shack Co-ed team.

– Frustrated – Paint the Duck, Make Sweet Al Happy!

 

 

“I woke up frustrated. I had three calls this week wanting private painting lessons. In my mind, been there, done that. I have evolved. I am now a writer. I am not there anymore. I’m too busy with this book and thinking about the next book.

 

At breakfast, I wanted to talk about it and thought Al would understand. I should have known I was talking to the wrong person. I began, “I’ve evolved, time has evolved, and what I want to do has evolved. I teach two days a week at Wyndham and I have other things to do. These people want me to take chunks of my time and teach them to paint. Where were they when I wanted to teach? They didn’t value me back then.”

 

Al said, “If they want a lesson, I think you should teach them. You could make a few dollars. I don’t see a problem.”

 

“You don’t understand. I have evolved. I am now a writer.”

 

“Betty, you have a talent and you are going to lose it if you don’t stay in it. Besides, I asked you to paint a duck landing on the water. I found a beautiful picture of ducks on the water, and I asked you to paint it a long time ago, and you haven’t.”

 

“I don’t have time. I am marketing this book.”
“I’ll never get a duck painting.” Al pouted.

I opened up a can of worms. I defended myself. “I painted a pheasant painting for you. I’ve painted portraits of all your dogs. Wasn’t that enough?”

Then Al brought up another pet peeve. “And besides, you are always on the computer. If you would stay off the computer, you would have time to paint.”

 

That was the way the day began and continued. Mikey, my marketing coach called. I thought if anyone could understand, he would. He is a part of all this social marketing I’m doing on the computer. I told Mikey my tale of woe. He listened patiently. Then he said, “Are you through whining? Your problem is in you.  You have de-valued your gift. You do not respect the gift in your hands.”

 

“No, it’s not like that.  It’s everyone else who doesn’t value my worth.”

 

Then Mikey continued, “I told you a year ago that your art would dwarf your book. You didn’t believe me. Your art will be a big part of your success.”

 

“I’m not there today. I’m ready to go on.”

 

Mikey didn’t give in. “This is your assignment. Spend a half hour before the Lord. Think about why the Lord put gold in your hands. Don’t think about it as being gold, think of it as purpose in your hands and what God wants you to do with it.  Also, think about the purpose of teaching others and what you are giving. Remember, the Provision is always in your presence.”

 

“I guess I can do that.” I said reluctantly.

 

Before we hung up, he said, “And paint the ducks for Al. Remember, he is the most important person in your life.”

 

I was still frustrated. I had too much to do as it was, and now I had to paint a duck painting. I needed some quick answers. I was still stewing on the fact that people my age have time to do nothing, they are going on cruises, going out to lunch, reading a book and my life is speeding up and I can’t keep up with it. The faster I go, more is expected of me. Something has to give.

 

In a quiet moment, I finally settled down in who I am and the Spirit in me. I can trust the Lord to move on me to do the things He has required me to do. If He sends some one along who wants to learn how to paint, then the Provision is in my presence and there is definite purpose.  It’s not how I’ve evolved but who the Lord brings into my life that I might bless them.  Isn’t that what it is all about?

 

For those who God has given much, He requires much. He does not require anything He hasn’t given. It is not the answer I wanted to hear, but I know there is purpose in it and that purpose has eternal value.

 

I just wrote another article, and I got a lot of frustration off my mind.  Thanks for reading. The ducks are waiting, but that is another story for another time.

 

Final Brush stroke! Move in the Spirit. Trust the Provision in your presence. What you thought was something you once did, might be that very thing to move you into your current possibility. Anyway, that’s what they tell me.

Get Away!

It was time to get away. When you start meeting yourself coming and going, It’s time to take a break. Al and I went camping to our favorite spot. I never go camping without a bag or two of things to do, but it doesn’t seem so much like work out in the woods.

I finished reading a book, wrote two articles and went over a contract. Plus I had time to walk along the river and make some decisions for the future.

I am launching a big undertaking. I needed time to think things out. I got some answers sitting by the river.

Perfect little camper, just right for weekend get-aways

Al Slade - Camper, Pagosa Springs, CO

Inside our camper Al is drinking a cup of coffee. All the conveniences of home

Camping in Pagosa Springs, CO

Perfect Camping spot by the river in Colorado

 

 

 

Al loading to go home

Our Favorite Camping area. Al is loading to go home

 

Whatever is before me, I obey the Voice!

This morning was tying up loose ends from the Presentation. I felt a big weight lifted. I wonder while I’m in the moving and shaking of a project, I don’t feel the weight. I guess it is the excitement of the project, the idea that there will be an end to it. For an artist or writer, nothing is too big or too heavy.

Ruby Sisson's Library, Pagosa Springs, CO - Possibly a new home for Spirit of the Red Candle.

I grabbed a Hard Copy of Spirit of the Red Candle and dropped it at our local library. I left it and said, “I’l like to donate it for our town’s library.” He said he needed to check with the one in charge. I said, “That’s fine, I just followed the Voice.”

If they turn it down, it is their lose.

If they put it on the shelf, someone might be healed by the book. It’s up to the Lord. I obeyed the Voice. It is enough.

Presentation for Spirit of Red Candle

As we set up the display at the First Assembly of God Church in Pagosa Springs, I wondered what I was doing. I always have this kind of remorse before I go through something. I’ve had great ideas, but always wonder if this was a good idea or some thing that would just take energy and make unnecessary noise. I’ve made a lot of noisy.

Allison Wylie at Book Table

Allison Wylie, my daughter is sitting at the Book Table at First Assembly of God Church, in Pagosa Springs, CO.

 

After having a book signing for my new book, I had already contacted two people who I had worked with in the past for a presentation of the book. I had three things in mind.

First I had written “An Author’s Journal” – a book about why I wrote Spirit of the Red Candle. I also wanted this presentation to be recorded on a CD and DVD for future promotional material for You-Tube and edited information to send to Bible Study groups, women’s groups, and even be a part of The Big Idea that Mikey is working on.

I wanted a run through as to the most effective way I would present this book for a special needs group.

Thirdly, at the end I turned the time over to questions and answers for the audience’s response. I really wanted to know what people related to in the book who had bought it. Two dynamic testimonies came from this presentation. These will be perfect to include in a packet for this special needs group. These were a plus that I didn’t expect.

If you show up, things will happen not expected. We showed up for the performance and so did the audience. I was humbled by all the people who cared enough to come. People from four different churches, from Sun News article, friends of Harvey and Dave and old friends.

The place was perfect. The sound man worked before with us to make sure all three mic’s were tuned in perfect for the piano, my mic and Dave’s reading of the book. He worked through the performance to make sure we got a good sound track.

Women from my Bible Study took care of the kitchen and refreshments. My daughters came and worked the book table. This left me free to concentrate on the people when they arrived.

Harvey played classical music and Dave read like an actor on stage. People responded to the culture of the evening and also the spirit in the church and the spirit on the book. It did exactly what it could do. It made the evening alive and fun.

Testing sound and placement before Presentation.

In the First Assembly of God Church before the people arrived. Testing sound and placement before the Presentation of Spirit of Red Candle

Why a Market Coach?

The following is an excellent article why self-publishing is better than going the old traditional way. My thinking is this. Why spend so much time and energy looking for an agent and trying to get a contract with a publisher. Why don’t you take that time and money and find a great market coach who is savvy in social marketing and on the cutting edge of future market-places and trends? One who will make you a leader in trends, instead of being someone who wants to keep up with the trends.

I work with a market coach, Mikey. He is priceless to me. He had introduced me to Pinterest when it was six months old. Now it has been in the social marketing arena only two and half years, and it is already leading as #3 and promises to be at the top. I am already established on Pinterest and have been for the past year.

He calls me each week and before he calls, he has checked out my postings on Pinterest, Twitter, Linkedin and Facebook. He tells me what I should be doing, What I should be focusing on. He advises me had to be interested and interesting. He is constantly surfing the net for new sites and ways for funding and possibilities for my book.

He spends fourteen hours a day on the internet, he understands movement on a website, how to bring in the people to your site, what sells your product and how to be a leader with the surf engines.

A Market Coach is the missing link for many writers. They keep looking for someone to publish them and how it use to be and not looking to future ways. They have spent valuable time and are frustrated and are standing in the same place where they were a year ago. I’ve been with Mikey for one year, I have made giant steps in entering the future market place. The following article proves why I made the right choice by going self-publishing and finding a market coach like Mikey.

Live Write Thrive


10 Reasons to Self-Publish–No More Excuses

Posted: 16 Jul 2012 01:45 AM PDT

I so enjoyed this list of 10 reasons to skip traditional publishing by Robert Bidinotto at PJ Media.com under their Lifestyle section on May 29th that I’m going to repost (reiterate) them here. After having “waited” 23 years to get published, spending all that time hearing my agents (six of them in total) tell me what a great writer I was and how they were sure they’d be able to sell my book(s) any second, I finally did get my first traditional publishing contract through a contest I entered. It was a big contract with one of the “Big Six” publishers. I thought when that book came out (my suspense/drama Someone to Blame), I would finally, finally, be on my way to best-sellerdom. It was a breakout novel—a shoo-in. Was I wrong.

 

The waiting was agonizing—from winning the contract until the book actually came out in print took nearly two years! It’s so hard for us authors to complete a book and then wonder how many years it will take to sell, then more years to come out in print. It’s agonizing, to say the least. And to my shock, when I spoke to the marketing/sales rep at a retail show I attended for the trade, he said that although my book had sold well in the presales, that was all the marketing and promotion I was going to get. It was summer; my book was in the fall catalog, but now he was selling the spring “line,” and so my few minutes of promotion had already passed by—months before my book released.

A No-Brainer

We’ve all heard the stories—how only big-name writers get any marketing dollars pushed behind their books. We all know that even if we get a traditional publishing contract, we still have to market just as much as if we self-published. So, think about it—really! If that’s the case—and the pluses of going indie SO outweigh going with a traditional publisher AND the stigma of self-publishing is really going away (gone, in my book), then isn’t this a no-brainer?

I still have books under contract with a small traditional publisher, and I really enjoy my relationship with everyone on the team. I have the privilege of being in control of my cover art and design, PLUS I pretty much write anything I want and turn it in without even having to tell them what my book is about. Yes, it’s a sweet deal and a lot of fun. But unless my seven-book fantasy series eventually  becomes a huge (I mean huge) success, I won’t see any money from it. And I have author friends who’ve made up to $50k a month self-publishing and yet they are still trying hard to get a traditional publishing contract. I asked one friend why, and she said she just wanted to be able to say she’d done it—and wanted the publisher to do the print books, which she felt were burdensome for some reason. I’m sure she knows she will make pennies compared to what she’s been making as an indie best-selling author, but this seems important to her. But for me—I’ve been there, done that. There is no great fame or benefit from being able to say “I’ve been published by the Big Six” unless you broke out and made it to the top. And good luck having that happen.

Okay, Pay Attention

So . . . in case you are still thinking you want that old-fashioned contract, here are 10 reasons you should self-publish instead (taken from the article I mentioned above). I wonder how many articles like these we authors have to read before we get the picture.

  1. Nobody Can Stop You from Publishing Your Book. Along the path to a legacy book contract you’ll be confronted by hordes of gatekeepers: literary agents, acquisition editors, editorial committees, bean counters, and publishing-house CEOs, all answering to the international conglomerates that actually own most major “American” publishers. Odds have become vanishingly small that you can run this gauntlet without being stopped dead in your tracks by a rejection letter.
  2. You’ll Make a Lot More Money. Under standard book contracts, royalty terms for authors are terrible—especially for eBooks. Most eBooks are sold through online retailers like Amazon. Let’s say you’re a traditionally published author, and assume your publisher priced your eBook at $9.99. On each sale, Amazon takes 30% of the list price, leaving about $7.00 for the publisher, agent, and you to split. However, your publisher will keep 75% of that $7.00, or $5.25. He’ll pay you, the author, only 25% of that $7.00—just $1.75. And out of that measly amount, you then must pay your agent his 15% commission—or 26 cents. Bottom line? You will net just $1.49 on each $9.99 ebook sale. (And that’s assuming your publisher honestly reports your sales and royalties; there is serious doubt that many do. Now, by contrast, what happens if you self-publish your eBook at that same price? On each sale of your $9.99 eBook, Amazon takes its 30%, leaving you $7.00. But guess what? You get to keep all $7.00—because you won’t have a publisher or agent to share your royalties.
  3. You’ll Get Paid Much Faster. When a publisher accepts your book, he offers you an “advance” against sales. But advances usually are paid in installments stretched out over long periods. Publishers also report sales and pay royalties slowly: Royalty statements are issued semiannually, and checks sometimes arrive even later. You’ll often wait months to find out how well your book is selling. Which means it’s often impossible to anticipate your income when you’re budgeting. By contrast, eBook distributors like Kindle Direct Publishing and Barnes and Noble’s Pubit, and print-on-demand services such as Amazon’s CreateSpace, report your sales virtually in real time. In addition, they pay your royalties monthly, with just a sixty-day lag from the time sales began.
  4. You’ll Keep All Rights to Your Work. Legacy book contracts are a minefield for the author. The sheer complexity of negotiating a contract can be confusing and intimidating. If you aren’t a lawyer, odds are you’ll unwittingly sign away forever secondary and subsidiary rights that could be a gold mine.
  5. You Can Publish Your Book Incredibly Fast. One of the worst things about legacy publishing is that it takes forever to get a manuscript published. Time = Money for authors, too. Most publishers insist that you submit your manuscript through a literary agent. It can take months of query letters to enlist one. Then you’ll wait days or weeks to sign a contract with her. Then more weeks working together to hone an acceptable “pitch” that she’ll send to publishers. Maybe she’ll also want you to rewrite some of your book. Next come months—maybe a year or more—of submissions to publishers. In the increasingly unlikely event that your agent corrals an interested publisher, weeks of contract negotiations follow. The publisher may insist on more rewrites and editing. Then the book goes onto their publishing schedule. Due to long lead times, it will be another year, eighteen months, or even longer before the book rolls off the presses. So if you’re really, really lucky, you’re looking at a minimum of about two years from the time you query agents till you see your baby sitting on bookstore shelves.
  6.  You Can Publish At Your Own Pace. Traditional publishing operates on a fixed calendar. Writers often don’t.
  7. You’ll Have Total Control. The typical author treasures her book. It’s her baby. But unless she’s already a big-name author, she’ll have almost no input, let alone control, over what her publisher decides to do to her baby. As a legacy author, you can’t pick the cover, set the price, or select the interior design and fonts. You won’t have any say over the dust-jacket copy, ads, marketing pitch, or overall budget. You’ll have zero influence over where your book is distributed, or for how long. And subtle terms in your book contract can be ticking bombs. Without warning, your publisher may even drop your book—or you, as one of their house authors.
  8. You’ll Have Complete Creative Freedom. When a writer puts himself in the hands of an agent and publisher, he may be hoping for a lot of things. Maybe validation and affirmation of his writing talent. Certainly, somebody else to do the grunt work of publishing and marketing. Availability of his work in bookstores and retail outlets. Reviews, bestseller lists, travel, book signings, big advances . . .
  9. You’ll Have Time to Find Your Audience. The production, marketing, distribution, and sales infrastructure established by Legacy Inc. demands a constant churn of new titles on the shelves of bookstores and public retail outlets. Because that infrastructure is so expensive to maintain, retail shelf space is precious. Each book must carry its own weight in sales or be replaced quickly by one that will. That’s why even best sellers disappear so quickly. A typical book has a six-to-eight-week shelf life in stores before a new title takes its place. And eventually, it will probably go “out of print.” It’s completely different for today’s self-published books. Self-published books never have to go “out of print.” They have unlimited time to find their readers. Indie authors are discovering that they can successfully relaunch “backlist” titles long out of print—and also that books which didn’t sell well at launch can take off any time later and become bestsellers.
  10. Finally, You’ll Be on the Right Side of History. The constant struggle to maximize returns from scarce bookstore shelf space has habituated legacy publishers and authors to a “scarcity mindset,” says successful self-publishing author Kristine Kathryn Rusch. “In fact, their entire business is built on it.”

Bidinato sums up by saying: “No, self-publishing isn’t for every writer. Is it hard work? You bet. Is it time consuming? Sure is. Is there a learning curve to master? Absolutely. Self-publishing success requires those things, plus an entrepreneurial spirit and a measure of luck, too. But if you compare closely the legacy vs. indie publishing models, which do you think represents the future of publishing? More importantly: Which offers you the greatest potential rewards as a writer? My fellow scribe, I urge you to give it a shot. The rewards are many. And there is no downside risk.”

Your thoughts?

The Big Idea is given wings!

 

Mikey called. Are you ready for The Big Idea?

I am. Where do we start?

First I need to start with talking to you about your Voice on Social Media. Do you know you have a voice? Do you know it is different than how people around you see you?

How you post, what you say and how friendly you are, or not,  will be your voice.   You need to be aware of how you respond to others.

“For instance,” Mikey said,”I have a voice and I am a member of a community, but I’m not present.”

“Pinterest is becoming stronger and more vital as to information than Google. It is the currency of the future.  You must recognize your customer base, curate a voice and find a voice. Behind every pin is a person. It is important that you start recognizing the people behind the pin or the postings.”

For you to go into the Big Idea, you need to continue doing what you are doing but become more vested in people on the internet.

We will not start the Big Idea until the funding is in place. To get the funding in place, we need text, get your Mary Magdalene website ready for the movie video and exactly what we are going to do. We hope to have this launch by August 1, for the funding and ready to start the project by October 1st.

Then I told Mikey. I am doing a Presentation and recording it. I hope to use this CD as a promotional tape for funding and hopefully for groups who want a speaker. Everything works together. Nothing is lost, some times it sets in motion but isn’t needed until another time.

Everything is another step for the full potential of the work.

I am ready and yet Mikey says, there will be some difficulty.

I said, “I understand,” but I really don’t. I haven’t worked this next mile before. If this happens as Mikey predicts, it will give us wings and we will begin to fly.

Then Mikey asked, “Are ready to write the next book? It has to be written.”

I said, “Give me the summer to get over this one first.”

 

 

 

The Day of the Presentation

The day has sailed on a cloud.

I woke thinking of my part of the presentation. I worked on my introduction, my daughter gave me a certificate for a pedicure and a manicure. This was a special treat. I felt pampered and special. I met someone at the Nail solon bu the name of Mary davis from Mancos. We talked about art and why we do what we do.

Day of Spirit of the Red Candle Presentation

I was treated to a special day. I was given a pedicure and a manicure for tonight's Presentation, Spirit of the Red Candle, journal of Mary Magdalene

 

Presentation for Spirit of the Red Candle

The day started out wonderful, a pedicure and manicure for the Presentation of Spirit of the Red Candle.

 

 

 

 

Presentation in the Making!

Informal meeting, taking it easy, enjoying other people of the arts.

Dave, the Poet, is a dynamo on staging and presentation. I’m taking direction from him. He is making it really easy for me.

Spirit of the Red Candle Presentation

Dave, the Poet is taking it easy, getting ready for the Presentation of Spirit of the Red Candle.

 

Presentation of Spirit of the Red Candle

Dave the Poet, in the mode of work. He doesn't look like he is working to me. This is the way he works.

 

 

 

 

 

Spirit of the Red Candle Presentation

Harvey Schwartz is getting in tune for the Presentation of Spirit of the Red Candle

 

Harvey is the best in his field. It is a joy to work with artists who have hone their craft. I am blessed.

 

 

 

 

 

Just talked to Mikey. He is engaged with a Big Idea, which is in the works as I type. He tells me it is going to be difficult, but will be successful if we follow the system in marketing. I’m ready. He is setting up the website and text to get this Big Idea into the making. All of this will be part of selling the 2500 books and more.

I feel like we are on the cusp of something big. How big? It doesn’t matter. We have moved so far along since we began this marketing endeavor August, 2011. I look back to the day I met with Mikey. He asked me then where I wanted to be in six months? I said, I wrote a book and I want to get it out into the market. I want to sell 2500 books. He said then, why not 25,000 books? I said, I can’t put my mind around that concept.

I did not know how much I would be learning and how much I would gain in relationships, I did not know then how far I would come in producing a book that is making people cry, laugh and wanting another book.

Mikey asked me today if I was ready to write the next book. I told him I would begin in the fall. People are already asking for the next book. Am I ready today? No. Am I going to write another book in this series? Definitely. I feel the same mandate as the first. I know I need to do this and by fall I will want to.

One thing about artists, once they do it,  they don’t feel compelled to do it again.

I wrote a novel which I am very proud of. Apparently, I must write another one. For the readers, for marketing, and for this new re-invented person I slipped into. I have become a writer. That means I need to write.